forgiveness

when some one asks the question would you forgive the people that left you to die in the water. our first response is no, its not fair i deserve to live too. but looking at it and being in the shoes of the people on the lifeboats it makes sense what they did. if i was them i wouldnt come back because i wouldnt want our boat to tip over or get too crowded. no i dont think it was right for them to not come back and find any more survivors but i understand why they didnt return.